I've been seeing this guy and we have kind of a friends with benefits thing going on. I like that we cuddle, kiss and do all the boyfriend/girlfriend stuff just we aren't committed to each other although I personally am not really looking for anyone else nor do I really want a commitment from him. I want things to stay how they are, we hang out, cuddle, kiss, bang and then go on with our day lol. Is it possible to continue on like this without getting feelings for each other? I mean I wouldn't mind being in a relationship with him it's just he's really the only good thing in my life right now and I like things how they are now and I don't want him to feel the need to commit to me, but if he wanted to I would, but we would have to kinda go backwards and take things slow because I was hurt bad in the past and it's hard for me to open up to people.
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well really a friends with benefits is someone you mess with that you have found undatable to you so you have them around till you find someone better, yes its possible but you would just have to really have your mind on the main poin( sex). It sounds like youve developed a bit of feelings already. If you guys do boyfriend girlfriend stuff such as dates that you actually leave the house on and go out in the public (movies, etc) then that's not a fwb, instead you guys are dating. If all you do is trade sex faces and you guys never actually go on dates, then its friends with benefits, When youve been hurt bad in the past the last thing you want is a friends with benefits relationship. Ask yourself this: If he were to get a girlfriend tommorow and tell me we can't talk anymore would I be hurt? ...if the answer is yes then you answered your own question .1