I have some trouble understanding my boyfriend because he seems like he's not as into me as he used to be, but I could be wrong. We have never said I love you to each other yet. However, when we first started dating he would text me all the time like in the morning good morning, at night good night, and we would have texting conversations twice a day. It gradually decreased to only one texting conversation a day closer to night time. Recently about 2 months ago I asked him if we could talk on the phone instead because its more personal. He does call me now at night time once a day and we talk for only 15 minutes usually. However, it now has gradually decreased even more that there are some days when he doesn't text me good morning at all. I have texted him first, but when I don't I expect him to. Some times he will and other times he won't. Same goes to as with the calling. There will be a day when he doesn't text or call all day and then at night Ill reply good night. I want it to go back to him texting me good morning, good night, and texting me maybe once during the day and calling at night. How can I get this to happen without me telling him to because I don't want him to do it because I tell him to I want him to talk to me because he wants to.
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This is completely normal. The honeymoon phase is just ending. It doesn't necessarily mean he likes you any less. It's just that he doesn't feel the need to do all those things anymore now that he doesn't have to (because you're already his girlfriend). And to be honest, texting and calling that much every day sounds boring as hell, sorry. I don't really blame the guy for not wanting to keep it up. Why don't you just meet face to face more? You said calling feels more personal. Well, guess what's even more personal! Actually meeting up! Or spending a night or two once in a while with him. That way you'll get to say good morning and good night face to face. A million times better than a dumb text message, if you ask me.
You're reading too much into this, and putting too much weight on the relationship you two have through the PHONE. It's exhausting to always behave the same way and do the exact same things. Spice it up a little. Do other things than sit around with your face glued to your phone. :)2