I've been with my ex for 2 years and he broke up with me before. Well Sunday he said I deserved better because we always fought about him not having enough time for me. So I just started ignoring his texts and deactivated my Facebook ..he then sent me more text messages asking why I would delete him and if this is how I want things to be. So I decided to text him back the next day saying what do you expect? You broke up with me? And he hasn't replied so I waited and sent him another text asking why he blew my phone up and why he's ignoring me.. he still hadn't replied Anyone have any idea why he's doing this? Or should I just stop trying to contact him and let him go? I'm not over the breakup and its so hard for me to move on What should I do?
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You two should either
a) break up
b) start over, clean slate
There is too much childish ignoring, reaching out, little jabs, social media isolations, etc. It's become a game at this point. You ignore him, he reaches, he ignores you, you reach out. The circle goes around and around.
Either start over with the proverbial clean slate, forgiving and deciding to move forward OR break up. But the carousel you two are on right now is not productive and ultimately unhealthy for your relationship and will take a serious toll on you too emotionally. I think a serious conversation about what each other wants, is willing to do, what the other expects, etc needs to take place and then you two decide if the relationship is worth salvaging.0