this has been going on for 4 months. one guy I'm kissing and cuddling with. the other guys we go out to dinner and movies...actual dates... they don't know about each other. I'm not sleeping with any of them. nobody said anything about being exclusive or me being their girlfriend.
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It's not cheating but it is going to look very bad on you in the long run and none of them may trust you after a while. Once a guy has feelings for you, him knowing you are with somebody else is going to hurt him.
Think about you starting to seriously like one of the guys you are dating and finding out that he is doing the same thing you are with other girls... kissing and cuddling one girl while going to the movies with another one... etc etc.
Once the guys find out the cuddling guy is going to call you a **** tease and the other guys are gonna start calling you a gold digger if you're not paying your portion of the dates. Guys want things to progress when you date them, not have you run off with another guy and mess around.0