I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months now. The first 2 months were great. 3rd month was shaky and she tried breaking up with me but we tried to make it work, which it did. She thanked me a few times after that for "staying and not letting her go." Last 2 months were shaky as well. Almost broke up again, but we didn't.
Here's what I don't get. There are periods where she will text me/call me randomly just to talk, which is great. Then there are periods where I have to text her just to see what's up, and her replies are usually not as enthusiastic as they usually are.
She says things like, "I'm so glad I met you...greatest thing that's happened to me in some time." Then days later it stops and she'll go blank on me. Recently she hasn't texted or called me as often.
I get the feeling that she's losing interest, but she still says things that say otherwise.
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Lol ...ya know...not for nothing rosita made a good point.
But, I would say she probably just want you to reciprocate some of the feelings. It's nothing wrong with you seeking her out every so often. Also it makes her feel like you care too. Just how she makes you feel special when she seeks Ur attention. She probably want to feel the same way. So show her some attention. Switch off on the affections sometime it's healthy for a relationship...seems like she spoiled you ;-). Lol. Share the love...u guys are fine. Good luck0
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