OK ladies, Maybe I watch too many movies but what do you think about a guy who wants to take it slow and kind of feel you out and get to know you really well before taking it to the next level? I'm not sure if I have it backwards but why does it seem like people always have sex first and then it's like well how about we start dating? I'm talking about like dating for a couple months before having sex.
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You're like my boyfriend in this matter. He wanted to take things slow.. I mean, slow.
He still does... If I were to run into him before I wanted a relationship, it would of been a bad thing.
He's taking the time to get to know me better but see nothing is wrong with having sex while getting to know one another.
Balance, patience, and self control.
Couple of months I can do.. But after 3 months.. OR... 6 months and no sex, that's not a fast enough pace.0