I feel like I want to go for the guys who are attractive - tall, good body, nice hair, good smile, pretty eyes. And also the ones who can make me laugh and lead conversations, plan, and also who compliment and make me feel special.
Ive come to learn though - or seem to learn - these "perfect" guys just wanna get me to have sex right away and don't really seem to want to date me and also the nerdy ones want to just date me.
Im all for sex, I want someone funny and nice too but at the same time I think sex should be more meaningful and follow a good connection - I feel the "perfect" guys fake a connection to get me in bed.
Thoughts? opinions? Advice? Tips?
- I agree. It's better to like a more shy, nerd for a true sweetheart.Vote A
- Nah - not true.Vote B
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As a shy guy who I guess is nerdy/geeky about things (though I don't think I look like a nerd lol, definitely not pasty glasses etc guy), I agree that A is best :P but I'm biased there.
You should definitely just give things more time. I always give this advice because it is best. There are good guys out there, many, but there are indeed lying a**holes who pretend to be good. The ONLY way you'll find out who is what? Time. And if you rush into things, you have yourself to blame then for being used :\ obviously the a**hole who lied deserves more blame, but you aren't free of it. Gotta give things a lot of time. And if they turn out to be a**holes, well, sucks, move on, find the good guy. Don't be angry at time wasted, look at it as a life lesson and know a little bit better what/who to avoid. Use it to help you spot the lies and such better. And be proud (if you did) that you didn't give in and let him have his way and get to sleep with you before you found out.2
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