How are you prioritizing your life? Personally, professionally, sexually?
Which of these are most important to you?
Also, Do you guys think it's better to find a girlfriend for a long term relationship while I'm still in college or wait till I graduate?
I'm currently seeing this girl we are not dating Because I don't want to date and hurt her emotionally! - I told her that straight up! Nonetheless she keeps pressing me that we should date. Etc. what to do?
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1. If it was up to me I would put my relationship first, then my college, then my temporary job. However, due to events that have happened and the fact that this is real life, I spend the majority of my time on college, then my temporary job, THEN my relationship. it isn't my choice, but you gotta do what you gotta do to reach your goals. and my goal is for my relationship to be on the top of the list. but it can never start out that way...
2. the most important to me is my relationship. (we plan on getting married in a year) but in order to be with him I have to deal with the other stuff first... haha, life's a b*tch
3. I believe that you should only date someone if you see them as a potential wife or husband. if you don't see yourself living with her for the rest of your life then end it. if you think it's possible for her to become your wife then give it a chance. because something like that always deserves a chance. the time that it happens is really irrelevant the way I see it.
If she keeps pressing you and you don't feel up to it then end it. You aren't being fair to her or you. It's simple really, either be with her, or don't. love doesn't have a calender, sometimes the right one falls into your life at the worst possible time, and there isn't anything wrong with that. it's whether you're willing to make it work, or drop it and try with someone else later. because there's never any guarantee that the other person will stick around for you to change your mind and give them a chance.
good luck and God speed.0