League system exists. Men use the common 1-10 system. Where 7 is cute, 8-9 is hot, 10 is maybe 4x in a lifetime. I don't understand how girls determine leagues regarding men so you'll have to fill me in. Whole package counts. Looks smarts personality charm.
IF YOU CAN, no offense to anyone, just go anonymous, state what number from a scale of 1-10 of what you are. Better to use a number that people have referred you to being as.
1-5 you have problems to work out
10 other people have referred you to this number.
- I date well above my league. 2 + steps upVote A
- I date above my league. one + steps upVote B
- I date within my league. 0+-Vote C
- I date below my league. -1 + steps downVote D
- I'm desperate. -3 + steps downVote E
Most Helpful Girl
I can only speak for my friends and myself. We don't really think “out of my league.” I've never gotten a number, but I'm probably somewhere between a 5 and a 7, depends on the guy. My friends and I have guys we think are way too hot for us. But if they're interested, well, we just feel extra lucky. Most girls I know separate guys into “guys I'd date,” “guys that I'd date if I got desperate,” and “guys I never want to see again.” So if you get kicked into the friends-zone... she might just date you if she got desperate/lonely/bored.
For me, to quote the Notebook “I have a crush on your mind, I fell for your personality and your looks are just a big bonus.” Some of the guys I was most attracted to, they weren't much in the looks department (my friends say my ex was average to cute at best) but they're smart, caring, good guys. You can be the hottest guy in the room but its not the whole package, I might not ever want to see you again.1