I was friends with this girl a while ago. More acquaintances, really. I don't know how or why, but our friendship changed very suddenly and very quickly. Anyway, I messed it up and we basically stopped talking for a few months.
About six months after this happened, I started to like her again. I was still feeling very guilty about what happened between us. I probably wasn't as bold as I should have been in trying to win her over. One night, I got VERY drunk and sent her an apology text message. I sent her a Facebook message, but she ignored it (I know she saw it). I called her, but she never called me back. This was in October.
Now, all these months later, I still can't seem to let her go. She "liked" a post I made on Facebook once, but she had gotten herself a boyfriend by then. I deleted her. I thought I was doing okay, but lately, I've found myself wanting her again. Why can't I let her go? :-(
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how did you mess it up? may be you did something to upset her or hurt her feelings that she moved on?
either way try to talk to her in person and see her reaction, may be be genuine and honest about everything come clean and at least let her know you feel bad about what happened and hopefully she can forgive you someday, if you're honest and kind in your words at least she will go on in life think of you as a good person. at least you will get it off your chest and won't have to wonder. ball will be in her court. but you have to be sincere and let her know how you really feel and only then she might respect you again.
if she has a boyfriend and she's happy then you should respect her privacy and let her go. but let her go after telling her how you really felt and apologize for your mistakes.0
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