Long but please read as every part is important to the story. Just to mention were both in our twenties.
So I met this guy through fb from mutual friends. In the beginning we would like each others pictures untill he messaged me. That moved towards text. We then agreed to meet. When we were together it was a bit of silence as I would describe him as a little cold in general but we decided to get some drinks. I got a little buzzed but by then the conversations were more free and I didn't feel as nervous. We decided to leave the bar but I still wanted to spend time with him so I initiate to go to his place. I know I didn't want to have sex but of course we were in his room kissing that led to touching but I said I didn't want to. He said he wasent trying to but that it was okay. So we cuddled and kept kissing and just fell asleep together. When I left he told me to text him when I got home but I didn't. Few hours later he asked me I got home okay I replied yeah thnx. He wrote me again we made small talk. Next day another hello, I replied. No text. Later that week I went out with friends and got beyond drunk. So I called him like 7 times. I had woken him up, I needed him to get in contact with one of my friends to come pick me up. He said hell try. Then texted me saying he couldn't get in contact to just text him because he had work in a few hrs. Later that day after waking up from a hangover. I texted him apologizing for calling that many times and being a bother as I was drunk and just really needed to get in contact with that friend. He said it was okay are you good. I replied yeah I'm okay. Again no reply. I waited three days and texted him still no reply. I know and I know I really messed up with the drunk dialing I regret it now that I know I did it. I feel super embarrassed as I feel like I have been giving the wrong impression. I feel like I ruined my chances and he thinks I'm a drunk or clingy which I'm far from. And ever since the cuddling that's where feelings came up because to me it was more intimate cuddling as if we were a couple, I never experienced that. Will I hear from him or should I stop thinking about him ? I just wonder if he ever liked me in the first place, I feel super clueless.
Btw I did ask him what he was looking for he said he wasent looking for a relationship but if it happened then it happens.
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You're lucky he isn't a scumbag or anything as you've set up yourself perfectly for a pump and dump.
"Sorry baby I've tried I've really tried but you have to get your drinking problem under control before you have a relationship with me or anyone" - a player would say (and be right - the caveat being he'd say it after using you)0