We met these guys who got our numbers and said we'd tell each other if they texted either of us. None of them texted her but both of them texted me. And I actually really like one of them. Should I tell her that one texted me? Or should I try to avoid hurting her feelings and just say he texted me insisting he wanted to hang out with BOTH of us again?
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Lies are not good for a friendship.
And she doesn't 'own' this guy. If she's a true friend, she'll understand if you want to go for him.
Does your friend only like this guy you like, or does she also like the other guy? If she likes the other guy, why not text that other guy and say something like, "You're a great guy, but I actually think you'd be a better fit for my friend". Or something like that. If you can do it tactfully, why not? Maybe that other guy liked both of you but didn't want to be rude by texting you both at the same time, so he flipped a coin or whatever. You never know.2