Lets put it this way, this guy has been chasing me for a month, he wanted to be my boyfriend so bad, and has high sexual desire over me... we exchanged pictures, texted constantly at night, everything from normal talk to dirty talk... finally we met, for 10 minutes (we were supposed to have a date that day but it has to be cancelled), because he was in rush but he still made an effort to come and see me, he waited outside of my office just to meet me for the 1st time. we barely get to talk properly at that moment, because he was in rush to go to attend some matters, but at least we get to exchanged a peck on the cheek before he left. Later that night, he didn't contacted me anymore until today, which is the 2nd day after that day we met. I'm assuming that he lost interest in me, because I sent him text asking how is he, what's happening like why he didn't reply my text, and he nvr replied. In total, I sent him one hi text, another long text after 6 hours, and another long text today to ask what is the problem, why is he shutting me down. I got it that he's not that into me anymore, but what I don't understand is, how can a 10 minutes meeting changes everything? FYI I'm not ugly, I'm no beauty queen either, but he knew what to expect as he has seen my pictures. I know for a fact I presented myself well, clean and all (quite a number of guys are interested in me actually). So what do you think is happening? I'm really curios as why he lost interest, there was once similar case happened back then with a guy, but I know that guy back off because he knew he's not going to get me into bed with him. But this guy? He knew I'm slightly hard, but he knew for a fact that I like him too and he's the one who accepted all my conditions before hand (like I told him no sex before marriage, but we will make out and he's so looking forward to that 1st date that was cancelled so he could get to kiss me for the 1st time). So I'm not sure what's going on? Why he suddenly back off in this way? Any ideas?
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He is in a rush in many ways! Most likely he had another date with someone else that didn't set such strict...preconditions! The 10 minutes were enough for him to decide to chase someone else, probably online dating...
Only a guess, but going from hot to cold so quickly means he must have..other priorities!1