So I'm 16 and this guy that I live by told me that he likes me. After he told me this we text All the time !But one time we were texting and he said "what's the farthest you've gone with a guy" and I answer "just kissing" and then he asked me "have you ever sent nudes" and I said "no" and now he texts me less than he used too. Also He usually sits with this one girl on the bus and she likes him and she always sits on his lap and touches him a lot and he doesn't seem to mind. But he tells me that he doesn't like her. One day before these texts,he asked me too sit with him on the bus(the other girl wasn't there) and he kept like poking me in the stomach and staring at me and stuff. The day after he told me he likes me ,we were on the bus and the other girl got on and he wouldn't let her sit with him. But I don't know how to explain but I think he just wants"stuff" from me and doesn't really like me.But I don't know cause he is really sweet to me and I already told him that I wasn't gonna do anything with hi but he stills texts me and talks to me so I just don't know , do you think he really likes me ? Should I play hard to get and not text him and not text him back for a little bit and see what happens ?
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LOL, yeah. I don't even ask girls for nudes.
For me there is a big difference between liking a girl and getting some. He's trying to confuse you saying he "likes" you. What he is really saying is "You look like a fine specimen to satisfy my penis". For instance, there is this one girl I actually like. I think she is very pretty, has beautiful eyes, an adorable personality, etc. I don't think sexually about her, just mostly about holding her hand. Sadly I wasn't successful with her because she "wasn't ready" for a relationship. Now, I am with a different girl, but I don't like her. She and I aren't dating, don't like each other and don't do romantic stuff. However, we both touch and rub each other sexually A LOT. We are playmates. I have testosterone to get rid of and she is constantly horny. We actually bypassed 1st base and went straight to 2nd and 3rd. (No home plate though, I don't want to be a daddy).
My advice isn't to play hard to get but to watch for signs of romance. Does he try to hug or hold your hand or instead try to touch your thigh? Does he compliment your eyes or smile or does he compliment your figure? Are his compliments genuine or simple trying to point out every single thing he can to try and make you like him more?0