I don't know if this is a typical girl thing, that all girls like to do this to seem more dominant, but it really gets on my nerves. Why can't you all be more straight forward?
I texted my crush 2 days ago to see how she was doing. She texts me back 5 min later saying "Sorry I'm really anxious right now ... About tomorrow's exam ... I'll answer you later ok? So, so sorry I love you so much <3<3.[...]"
I told it was fine. But she hasn't even had the decency to text me. I know she must be devilishly busy at the moment but I thought girls would really want to speak to the boy they like and make time to talk to them.
I don't know if I need to wait and see, or that I should text her now or tomorrow ... I'm lost in all honesty.
P.S Before you even start telling me "Why are you texting her? Go meet her in person" and all that; She's in Paris, I'm in London. I can't call her because of the price, I can't talk to her on Skype because apparently her Webcam doesn't work properly ...
She's told me a week ago that she REALLY likes me and that she can't wait to see me for her Prom (to which she invited me to).
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First of all, if its a big exam, then she is definitely busy with studying and preparation and it's not that she "wants to make you feel depressed" its just that she's busy. You're looking at things too selfishly here. Granted you want to spend time with her, but then if she's texting you back and forth, you're distracting her and it could have a devastating effect on her performance on the exam.
You're right, when we fall for someone, we want to interact with them as much as possible, but we, just like you, have priorities and sometimes, we have to set aside our wants to satisfy our needs. Lets say you're a work and you're working on this major project for your boss, and the deadline is drawing near but you still have so much to organize and complete before you can present it. Wouldn't you want her to be understanding and allow you time to finish? Or would you prefer she text you every five minutes and you will entertain every text she sends, even though it could cause you to miss the deadline? Try and remember she's in that situation and its only for one more day. Show some compassion, be patient and supportive. I am certain things will be back to normal tomorrow after the exam.0