Ok so here goes. I guess I'm attractive - I'm 6'4" with a great body and have a really deep voice. I was scouted by urban outfitters the first day I was in NYC during a US tour with my band. Many people have told me I could model. I graduated from a prestigious university and I'm the lead singer/ songwriter and guitarist of a band that's successful, touring extensively all over the US. I'm always the life of the party and many people throughout my life have told me I'm the funniest person they have ever met. In middle school I was voted most creative and in high school most funny.
However, I cannot get a date on OKCupid with any girl I find attractive! Also it's hard to get a date in bars. The only reason I can think of for my not getting dates is that I dress sort of weird (because I'm in a band), but actually girls who are into fashion tell me I'm extremely fashionable. I don't get it. WTF? The only girls who write me on OKC dress crazy and do drugs. None of the normal looking girls who I'm into write me back or seem even remotely interested:( Why is this?
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there could be a lot of reasons. maybe you are very intimidating? honestly a lot of girls want attractive men yes. but if you are giving off that whole singer hot guy feeling it might make girls feel insecure being with you.
as cliche as it is maybe you just try too hard. desperation can give off a bad vibe. women love men who are enjoying their life, who don't need a relationship but would love one if they met the right person. maybe you are too pushy when you meet someone, or ask too many cliche qns, don't go with the flow enough because you are nervous. I am not sure what the problem is because by the way you are describing things you seem confident and attractive.0
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