I'm 18, I felt in love with one boy we go to school together. I'm Muslim, this boy isn't and my parents will never agree for it. I can't even tell them because they may force me to change school. Actually I can meet with this boy only at school because my parents are very controlling, I can't go out like other girls and if I do I must inform parents exactly where I'm.
This boy is tired of this situation and I am afraid that he will break up with me anyway .
Help! because I will kill myself !
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Don't change schools. If they tell you to change schools, just don't. If they don't like your boyfriend, tough. That's YOUR choice, not theirs. Be your own person. Don't let your pushy, fucking asshole bastard parents tell you who to love, and try to run your life. Run your own life. If they can't handle that, then do what you need to do, if you really think this guy is worth it. If they care about you at all, they'll come around eventually.
So do whatever you need to do, but stand up to them, and show some guts. Be an adult. You're a grown-ass woman! If you need to move out, do it. If that means staying with your boyfriend, or a friend, do it. If that means getting a job to pay for school (assuming your parents are the ones currently paying for your schooling) then you get a job and pay for it. If this guy is so important to you, then you do what you need to do, and you stand your ground, even if that means changing things to make sure it gets done. If he's not worth standing up to your folks, moving, or getting a job, just so you can support yourself and stay with him, then he's absolutely not worth killing yourself.
Finally, I need to tell you something. If you are seriously going to kill yourself over a guy, that's fucking stupid. I mean seriously fucking stupid. Secondly, if you're going to kill yourself rather than fight for this guy and do everything possible to keep him, and just let your parents control you until you kill yourself... then that's EXTRA fucking stupid. Use your head, girl.
So... My advice. Do everything you need to do, or he's not worth it.4
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