I'm 5 months pregnant and we've been together for 3 years, we have had issues in the past and he's been online dating websites. We live together. When we argue I check his phone as that is when I worry he will get up to something he doesn't. One of the glamour models he looks at regularly lives locally and he used to babysit her. as far as I know they are not in touch now. I know I shouldn't check his phone and I have been working on not doing it as it makes me feel worse but sometimes I feel weak and have to do it. I want to speak to him about it but if I tell him it will open a whole can of worms. He is quite fiery and argumentative. I just can't bear the fact of him looking at other girls and fancying them more than me. I think I'm quite attractive but I don't have big boobs like these glamour models. I feel betrayed and let down by him and I just can't get over it. Help and advice please :)
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I think honestly your pregnancy might be getting to you. If you've always felt this way perhaps it may be some form of self-esteem breakdown. The only reason I don't point fingers at your husband right away is because of how you worded your predicament.
I mean "It is normal" would be the regular answer but at the same time I'm curious if you have reason to believe ( by pattern ) that he would be off-kilter. I mean do what you do to give yourself peace of mind; normally I'd wag my finger and say "Bad Woman!" for snooping but hey, you do it and you'll be that much happier and you're pregnant so ... Kudos to you on keeping the stress and anxiety that was probably latent or less intense down.
Anything for your offspring! Literally.0