Having the same interests would mean you already enjoy the same stuff, while different interests means you could introduce each other to new things. what's your preference, if any?
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honestly when things are new in a relationship/ dating there is so much infatuation that regardless of differences in hobbies etc you both would be so excited to learn so much about each other that you would be willing to try new things etc even if you werent that into the things they were into.
However, once that infatuation spell wares off you realize that compatibility is SO vital for a relationship to last. not saying that you aren't necessarily compatible with someone just because you don't share the same interests. compatibility can have a lot to do with someones attitude etc are they passive aggressive, how they handle communication etc. BUT if you do have a lot in common it probably does indicate a more likely sign you are compatible. so I would say sharing interests, goals, hobbies etc could mean you are at a similar stage in life to one another or share certain perspectives on things nad I think this is a very good sign.0
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