I've been with my boyfriend for close to a year and a half and I'm on the verge of leaving him. When we first started dating he knew I didn't do any drugs. The problem was I thought he felt the same way. Five months into our relationship we get into an argument about smoking pot, and he said that he's always smoked and I was basically trying to change him. Which is a lie, because he knew if I would've seen him smoking pot earlier on in the relationship I would've ended it. Basically he said either you let me smoke or we can't be together, so I made a deal with him; he can smoke but can't do it around me whatsoever, few months later what does he do but start selling the sh*t and almost got busted. The funny part is, is that I told him when we first started going on dates that I've dated guys that were potheads and I brokeup with them, and when we made that agreement he promised it would be once and a while, but now its everyday. Basically I'm at my breaking point he now wants me and him to get a place together with his three best friends and they're all stoners. He refuses to get a real job because they'll drug test him so he's stuck at domino's being a pizza boy. I had hope when he mentioned joining the military but no surprise here he doesn't follow through with it because he knows he'll fail the drug test but still doesn't stop smoking. I have no idea what to do, how do I get my old boyfriend back? I don't want to lose our relationship.
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You don't want to be around pot smokers. He does. The relationship is over, already. Sorry.
Here's a protip: YOU CAN NOT FORCE PEOPLE TO CHANGE.3