I've been sweet on a woman at work. She works in a different department. I work in IT. I've known here for about a year. I helped her many times with PC issues, saved her from embarrassment once. She is the nicest kind caring woman I've ever met. Well the last job I did for her she said she owed me a drink. I said well careful I'll hold you to it... I didn't really expect anything from it ... Well I was wrong. Out of the blue she calls me and asks me about that drink. Of course I said yeah! We haven't picked a time or place yet... She has adopted kids and is busy... And I'm trying not to over play it.
Her last day at work is Friday, wants help with one more PC issue, but still wants a drink with me.
So, what do you think. I'm pretty happy but nervous. I don't think she is using me for work, but she might.
Should I just pick a date and a place and let her know? And how do I follow up to get another date!?
I really like this woman, and I'm not intimidated that she has kids I want this to work.
She didn't get any going away gift or card or even a goodbye. I gave her a Russell Stover 4piece chocolate. She gave me a big hug and sunk her head deep into the side of my own.
I think I nailed it
I'm not holding back like some of your answers seem to think I am. On the contrary, I'm actually calling her, and I know where we're going
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Just pick a place and time and tell her. Is she leaving the company? you said her last day is Friday. during the date compliment her about how you find her to be the nicest kind caring person you've ever met. Don't forget to ask about her kids. women with kids love talking about their kids so show some genuine interest so she know you're good with that because obviously they're the most important thing to her with or without a man in her life. At the end of that date, tell her you enjoyed yourself and would like to go out with her again. See what she say. If its a yes, you're on a roll and can take it further from there.1