Me and my crush text almost everyday, we were friends before we started going out on dates so we talk a lot to each other and flirt back and forth or tell funny stories and what not. I feel like I might just be bugging her all the time cause we text so much, there's no particular reason why I feel this way, she responds in a way to keep that conversation going, we'll still be texting into the morning, she seems like she genuinely interested when we text. But I want to try taking a little break this weekend and not text her and see if she texts me first, I know it might sound stupid and weird but I just wanna use a it as a test to see if she actually likes talking to me and isn't annoyed by it. Does this sound like a good idea? Or do you think it will end up backfiring? I ddo hear a lot from girls that they hate texting a guy first cause they feel like they're bugging you. What are your thoughts?
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It's not unusual that you feel like you're bugging her. She's probably worried that she's bugging you keeping the conversation going...it's just normal to be self conscious about that when you like someone.
How long have you been dating? How long were you friends before you started dating? Did you text a lot when you were friends?
"Testing" someone you like could very well be a bad idea. Speaking from the girls' perspective, if you've been friends and started dating and she gets texts from you almost daily, if you just stop texting to see if she'll initiate, she could very well think you're not interested anymore.
My advice? If you're actively going on dates with this girl and she still is responding to your texts for days on end, she's into you. There's no need to play games, even if it would just be for your own reassurance.0