My girlfriend is really nice and pretty but we have a lot of issues that my friends say are deal breakers.
She is somewhat pessimistic, very sarcastic and kind of carries herself like she is "better than most people".
Other than that, she is very intelligent, sweet at times & very gorgeous.
For the most part we get along but just having a conversation with her is somewhat of awkward oppose to other people.
Could you date someone like this?
- Yeah.Vote A
- No.Vote B
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Personally I couldn't date someone like that, but that's only because I hate pessimists. I'm a realist and I can get annoyed by anyone who is not also a realist, but pessimists and cynics are definitely the worst. Sometimes I need optimists to show me the brighter side of life when I'm having a bad day.
I don't see a person who is sarcastic as a bad thing unless it's in extremes. And thinking that they're better than most people is okay as long as they're not putting me down or insinuating that they're better than me (or especially smarter than me, it pisses me off to no end). I can't be with someone who doesn't think of me as an equal. But if he thinks he's better than other people who are not me, I'm okay with that. Plus, you said she's nice. If they're mean or angry and they act like that, then there's no way. But if they're nice and have those flaws, it's not as big of a deal.
But in the end, it depends on the kind of person you are. If you like her and are able to see past her flaws, that's great and you should keep dating her. But if you're not able to see past her flaws, you might want to move on. Just remember that everyone has flaws so you kind of need to decide which ones you're able to tolerate and which ones you're not.0