So it's Father's Day in the UK and this girl I like, who I flirt with, doesn't have a dad due to losing him when she was younger.
I was wanting to send a nice text saying that he'll be looking down on her thinking what an amazing daughter he has, but I heard somewhere that I should AVOID being 'associated/related' to negative parts of a girls life. So is it best to avoid this or send?
Also, the our last conversation went like this two days ago:
HER - I hear congratulations are in order (this being aimed at my tweet that I passed my degree)
ME - You're invited to celebrate with me. Dress code - a smile must be worn at all times
HER - As always
ME - yeah
ME - Revoked your invited until you produce me a smile (I accidentally sent send, should have been all one text)
She seemed a little off for some reason, maybe it's because I haven't asked her out but I will be during contact soon. Now, even if you tell me it's a good idea to send that message about her dad, I'd be sending THREE texts in a row. I don't want to come off desperate.
So, would it be better to just leave the idea and wait for her to initiate with me?
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That message could get a very negative reaction' she might not be over grieving for her dad.
On the other hand, she might really appreciate your remembering him.
So,unless you've already discussed Father's Day and how she is feeling about it, sending the message would be a really big risk.
And, as you say, three in a row!0
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