Now, whenever I hear the question "Where have all the good men gone?" Some men answer it with "they've always been there but they changed to get your attention because you never noticed them. Nice Guys finish last."
Those answers confused me. Maybe this is just my opinion, but I thought what made a good man good is that he was a kind gentleman even if he didn't get wanted or got what he deserved. I thought ACTUAL good men wouldn't prioritize trivial things like sex or dating that highly to the point he'd change his personality for it. isn't that a pick up artist?
Now, from my experience, even though I'm only a teenager, I've dated a few nice guys and my mom married one (he's my dad). In fact, I knew a few homely average nice guys that get cute girlfriends.
- No, he wasn't good to begin withVote A
- Yes, that's how things workVote B
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A good man would be good for the sake of being good. It takes a lot of strength to do so though. We live in a world that rewards bad people, many people get away with cheating, and bad guys generally do get the girl before anyone else does.
While it's tough to keep doing the right thing at the cost of your own romantic happiness, if you're a good, strong man, your morality will always be your highest priority.2