At 27 years old, I think this would be a problem most men would envy but I consider it quite a problem. I can't remember dating a girl that was older than 4 years my junior since high school. I made the mistake of marrying someone 18 yo when I was 23 that obviously didn't work. I'm seeing someone that is 21 now.
I don't consider myself immature. I am a college graduate, employed as an engineer in a "serious" job. I don't go to trendy clubs and I don't play dating games. The age isn't so much the problem as the attitude it seem to bring. I'm past those days where I want to go out and get "blasted". I don't want to be with someone who is bored during the day and texts insistently because they work retail at night. Someone who lives with their parents and are not in school or have any noticeable goal with their life.
I approach women my age and older, and it just never seems to turn into anything. The women I do date are what I consider solid 7-8's so I know I'm not totally undateble. I dress presentable, 90% of the time in chinos and boots. I'm just at a loss of what I need to do to attract more age approach women?
I approach women that I know the same regardless of age. I'm more attracted to how outgoing, funny, or kind they are. And of course how good they look, but I certainly don't consider 27 yo women too old to look great.
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Most guys your age are dating girls in their early twenties...so older women often think that guys are just trying to sleep with them while lusting after a younger body. I am 30 and would totally date a guy who is 27, though, if he seems like a good guy. (In fact, I was doing so for over a year and a half until just recently ... we broke up for non age related reasons). It's just a matter of finding single girls who are open to dating a younger guy. Most girls don't do it because they're afraid that he will leave her for someone younger. In reality, anyone can leave you for another partner, so finding a good person matters a lot more than a few years. That being said, I wouldn't date a guy who was too much younger than I was for maturity reasons (though I'm not comfortable dating guys who are too much older, either).0