Or been kissed, or even been on a date. And I'm 18, graduated from high school about a month ago. Yeah, I know. Not good. But I am not going to college in the fall, I'm waiting until the winter semester. (January) But how bad is it to be an 18 year old girl and have like no experience with dating, kissing, or relationships? I've liked a couple of guys before but nothing happened because I just knew they wouldn't be interested in me. I used to be so shy and never talk to anyone in school but halfway through high school I started talking to more people/friends. Still, no guy was interested in me. Now I will be starting college, with no relationship experience whatsoever. What do guys think about girls like that? Also, I am kind of a nerd. As in, I like reading and video games. A lot of guys probably want a more girlie girl but I'm just not like that. Soo, am I just like a loser or what? By the way, I know I'm not the prettiest or anything. But I really can't think of anyone I know that hasn't had a boyfriend, or kiss.
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Certainly not the end of the world!
High school is absolutely meaningless once you graduate. It doesn't matter what happened to you in high school, or if you even went to high school. You shall realize that shortly.
I know I'm going to get flak for saying this...but the real losers out there are the ones that cling to their high school after they graduate and never move on. Ok, I know that some (read: very few) people meet their true love in high school and get married...and maybe some of the time, it actually works out. Not often.
But most people trying to cling to high school come off as very sheltered, because high school really is that small compared to the real world. And I went to a high school with 3,000 students too. Trust me, you've been playing in a bath tub up until now. And even if you sat in that bath tub rather than pretending to swim, it won't make one bit of a difference when you get into the real ocean.
Trust me, a lot of those pretend swimmers are going to drown. Now that high school is over, it doesn't matter how many boyfriends your friends have had. They're starting from scratch. You shouldn't be comparing yourself to them anyway. Prepare your own destiny.
Also, being a nerdy girl kind of makes you like a rare book. You just don't know how valuable that makes you yet, because you haven't met any rare book collectors. Trust me, there are plenty of guys going out of their way to look for nerdy girls, because they're really not easy to find. Girlie girls are everywhere. No one hunts for them.
The biggest issue you're going to face in the future is when you suddenly have the attention of several guys and don't know how to choose.0