Guess these questions are more towards a woman's point of view.
Dated this girl at the start of year for about month. She just got out of relationship and I didn't want to deal with emotional baggage of her break up. Recently we reconnected after no contact with each other for about 3 months. She is well over her break up now, and as she put it “I am in a better state of mind and moved on from the EX”.
When we first dated she would not commit to dates even if it was a week out, she would say “I don’t know that’s a long time from now”. Now she's willing to talk about plans together, even if they are months in advance, she says “ The only we she is not making it is if she or I die”. She also said she would not make plans so far in advance is she didn’t see us together at that point. We are talking about a vacation about 6 months in the future.
She also was very closed off on her communication ( she wouldn't tell me about her weekend adventures), she really wouldn’t open up to me. Now she is like a open book and willing to discuss anything with me.
We have not had the” do you want to be exclusive talk” seeing how we just reconnected and it's only been month again. Now the dating has gotten to physical stage, we have sex every time we see each other. She tells me she does not sleep around and does not do one night stands. She says she only has sex with people she trust. Has mentioned many times she really trust me.
My questions are-.
1. Do woman look see the whole picture? She looking at that we just had a break and the dating never really stopped?
2. Since we are having sex is she waiting for the exclusive talk?
3. At what point does this turn into a relationship, is there some time limit? Seems she might be in hurry now then before.
4. Is she already in a relationship with me and waiting for me to start the talk?
Thank for any advice.
Most Helpful Girl
1.-it depends on the girl
2.-i think its up to you
3.-well a month can be a limit,
4.- she can't assume things, you need to talk0