Hey guys need help on this one. I've recently asked my ex that I had been with for 8 years to try and work it out. He has not answered me about this at all. I don't know if this means he is thinking about it or just torturing me with the silent treatment. But was wondering are there things that can make him think more on the trying side? sweet text messages? like "have a good day at work"? something like that. "goodnight"? Is that too much? He is coming back with our children from vacation this weekend and bringing them back to me. He loved mybaking. thought of baking something for him to bring to him? Again, too much? Or good? Need tips!
We have been broken up over a year now. He has not dated since we separated. I left him.
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Its a tough one and honestly relationships are hard and its hard going through break ups and getting back together again. He is probably feeling overwhelmed and gun-shy, the only way he doesn't feel hurt is by not confronting the issue at all, hence the silence treatment etc. Give him the space and time to think and miss you. It is hard but try to do other things, read books,take classes that distract you from him for a bit. Improve yourself, date yourself for a while. Then set a date with him. A date when you both decide what to do. And this should be a formal date...you don't talk until then. And on that day you dress up, and you talk to him. In that time, you also think about whether you truly want him back. There are many issues you'll both need to deal with. Are you both healed to give it another shot? Or do you move on.0