He picked me up (mistake), and we went to get a coffee. I knew instantly he wasn't my type. From pictures, he looked decent enough, but in person he was a little bit 'skuzy' looking. Just not my type. Nice guy, but no thanks. I treated him well and everything, kept a conversation etc. What do I do if he messages me?
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Just straight up tell him. Don't play mind games and make him guess. Just let him know that it was nice getting to know him but that you're simply not interested in having a relationship or more dates with him.
There really is no way to do this without hurting his feelings or self-esteem (if he's really into you) so just do it as nicely as you can. It would be worse to play around and not tell him how you feel. Honesty is the best policy.0