Ok so it's this guy I have been crushing on for like four and a half years. I never had the guts to tell him how I felt because I was so shy. Well recently me and the guy got back in contact with each other. I feel as if he flirts with me and that he's interested but then again he does things that sort of make me think other wise, such as him ending a conversation by not replying to my texts and him calling me but then getting off and saying he'll call back and he never does. I really want to get these feelings off of my chest because I feel like this is my only chance to do so. I'm not nessecarily looking for a relationship after I tell him this, I'm just trying to get this across so he'll A.) tell me how he feels as well B.) Stop flirting with me if he isn't interested and/ or C.) Just be aware of how I feel. So even though he hasn't replied to my text message should I still text him? And if so what should I say?
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I've been in your spot almost exactly before, and so can tell you that the best thing to do is just send one more text, telling him how you feel about him, and leaving the ball in his court. It he doesn't reply to that, you did what you could so I guess it just wasn't meant to be.
Try not to send hints, be flirty yet worry that you don't come across too eager. That most likely will blow over as it did for me, so be direct just not forceful, and see how he reacts.0