the catch is after the date she didn't want anything like sex. She just wanted you to see that she would be able to give you a good time if they were to be together. So basically if you don't want to go all the way and just want to date is it cool to get close and extremely touchy without any sexual acts.
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Touching a guy outside of his pants and saying you don't want anything like sex is the equivalent to walking into a car dealership with a suitcase full of cash and telling the car salesman you never actually intended to buy anything.