I met this guy online and meeting him for coffee tomorrow.
I'm 23 never kissed a guy, and only had three first dates all from an online dating site.
and this has occured before I'll list according the people
Jake- was very awkward to begin with. told me off during the date like you "should accept another offer" when I told him about some weird guy msging. Told me I was too extrovert for him. And kept asking me when I was going to meet my friend and it was getting late. I kept trying to make the conversation go, as it was my first date really ever...and he just made it hard. I shook hands with him at the end of the date lol Then for the rest of the semester I saw him on the express train to my university every morning...yay more awkwardness for me.
Alex- He was shorter than I realized he would be and the day of he (before the date) sent me a few body shot and asked me if I liked them. He was going to university overseas after the summer ended and I felt like he was only looking for a hookup. I hugged him at the end of the date and went on my way as saying my bus was leaving soon. He said he would walk me to the station (15 min away) I said its okay its kind of far.
Matt- He was nice at first. And then after he kept talking I was yawning and drinking coffee. Wasn't really interested I guess it showed because I kept looking elsewhere when he was talking. In the beginning of the date he suggested we go out for a walk after coffee..and it was raining lol and after the date he just goes
"see you around".
I don't think I was particularly attracted to any of them, maybe that's why the dates were so bad. I felt awkward even when I wasn't attracted, a) kept being on my phone during the date- I was nervous-only first two dates listed though
b) last date as I reached for coffee, my hand would shake even though I FELT NOTHING for the guy.
Any ways to make myself less nervous and less awkward during the date, I have like no experience and my friend is telling me to go on this date with the new guy because he seems like someone I would like. He's intelligent, athletic and cute. And now I'm also second guessing myself thinking I'm not good enough lol
He even checked his watch twice during the date and asked when I was going to meet my friends. I dragged the date on which I shouldn't have even though he was kind of boring but he was good looking. I can't date to safe my life.
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You have to realize that you are awesome for just being you and that the person you are on the date with should just be happy that you have taken time out of your life to include them. I used to be just as nervous dating as you are, but it is just a date. You are just getting to know someone to see if you are compatible. The other person is going to have the same nerves as you. You sound like a great person, stop doubting yourself and just be true yourself. A woman that sticks to her values and won't settle is irresistible. You are going to go through a lot of toads until you find your prince.0
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