I'm a 23 year old college student, I'm on the shy nerdy side. I've tried approaching women and trying to get a girlfriend; But I've gotten nowhere at all. I feel like since I'm young, I will get ignored by women my age. But I'm not gonna date a woman I am not attracted to just because my success with women is low. And since the women I am attracted to are taken I will just be alone.
So since I am single and cannot get a girlfriend, I spend my weekends studying, playing video games, watching T.V., and that's it. I see couples my age kissing and I do get jealous sometimes because I can't get that at all in my life. Somedays, I wonder how some guys are good with women and I'm a complete failure with them. But for some men, you either got the skills to attract women or you don't. I know I don't have the charm or confidence to get a woman to like me (Just being realistic). So how do I forget about dating for good? I suck in this aspect in life.
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No, you are still young don't give up. . Girls today are complicated and many of them end up with the bad boys, but when the girl is sick of getting hurt they search after guys like you. To succeed with just one woman you need to fail alot, before finding a girl who will like you for you. What you can do is to build your confidence within yourself (accept the person you are) and change your appearance if you are not happy about that, start by befriending different girls (both attractive or less attractive) girls so you know how to act around woman in general (know how girls think and what they like). . good luck, and don't give up on love!2
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