So me and this guy, John, at work have got loads of chemistry.We crack one another up, while also being able to have intense, soulful conversations, and we texted a lot in a really flirty manner, and I mean, it is summer, and I'm up for a summer fling.
Then I saw on Facebook he has a girlfriend. Which no big loss to me really, I would never get in between a couple or anything. Plus he is younger. I stopped texting him, and I don't reply to very many either.
My questions are how do I simmer down the chemistry in person? I mean I can't not talk to him. We sit there with only each other for hours. And am I crazy or is it exceptionally sketch for him to be giving off such a vibe when he is dating someone? Do you have any thoughts on this? Thanks:)
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People do a lot of things while they are in a relationship.
Although it isn't right, sometimes flirting can be harmless if no boundaries are crossed.
He obviously notices your a change in behavior and may ask about it.
If he does, be honest with him.
Tell him you feel a little strange around him after finding out he has a girlfriend.
Try your best to keep things professional.
Be friendly towards him, but not flirty anymore.0