Joined a dating site, sent out the most messages it lets you send in a day, got 2 replies. One telling me I look camp. Another telling me that she is obese (I specifically say on my profile I'm not into that and she only had pictures of her face) The other 38 girls didn't respond.
I literally messaged the first 40 women who appeared on my search, apart from 3 (two obese girls and one girl I went to school with lol), so I'm not aiming high.
I planned on doing this every day for a month, I'm depressed after the first day and want to give up.
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Keep in mind the quality of your profile does come into play. If you are not selling yourself in it you're sending out pointless messages.
Now keep in mind that a lot of profiles are liars. I've met quite a few liars overtime. I've met girls who looked nothing like their photo, girls who hid their weight, and so on.
Also keep in mind looks aren't everything. OKCupid found that the guys who get messaged the most were ones who listed a high income in their profile section. The article outright says, " If you're 23 or older and don't make much money, go die in a fire." link Basically after age 25, you have to at least make 50K or more to stand a chance getting a date off these dating sites.
My profile tells about what I do for work and while I don't list my income, girls are not likely to message me because I'm not a "manager" or in some big line of work or I don't have a Bachelor's degree or higher and girls will actually state it right in their profile that they will not date guys who don't have a college degree.
A lot of guys lie about their height and a lot of girls are misleading about their physique, much like the face-only profile you messaged. The girl is most likely just looking for attention anyway.
That's not to say there are no mature women on these sites looking for a real relationship. I've met some decent girls. The problem is there's a lot of trash on these sites claiming to be looking for a relationship when they really have underlying motives.3