How would you feel if you are dating a very attractive woman (sexy face and sexy body) and every
Single time you go out with her, men stear non stop
How does that make you feel? Do you feel proud or scared
Feel free to explain
- Scared of losing her/him to someone elseVote A
- F*** them let them stear, shes/his MINE at the end of the dayVote B
- Kind of both A and B, ill explain.....Vote C
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I don't understand guys who feel scared, or insecure, or afraid to have the girl they're with looking good. I tell my girlfriend all the time, if we're going out, go ahead and by all means, dress up. Put on that skin-tight body hugging super short dress, show off your @ss, show off your boobs, wear those Gianmarco Lorenzi strapless platform 6" heels, go get your nails done, go get your hair done, go get your make-up done, and let's go out.
I want every guy to know who I'm f***ing and what an amazing time I've having. I love it when guys look at my girl, because that's exactly how I feel, "yeah, damn strait, you wish you could be f***ing that, but I'm f***ing that." I look better than you, I have more money than you, I'm smarter than you, my girl looks better than yours, and you can gauge by how she's dressed that she's very sexually comfortable with herself, so I have a better sex life than you. So, on every single aspect of life that matters, I'm better than the next guy who is staring at her and thinking "f***ing lucky @sshole."
I like it when she goes somewhere alone, when I'm not around, or even if I've left her alone for a moment, and guys hit on her. I know it makes her feel good, plus I feel good twice. First, I feel good for not being that jealous insecure boyfriend that tries to have his girlfriend on lock down. Second, I feel good knowing that other guys basically want what I already have.
I mean, it's different if I'm right next to her, a guy knows that I'm her boyfriend, and despite that still tries to hit on her. That's when the line is crossed, even for me, primarily because the guy is disrespecting me.
But like, she can go ahead and flirt with other guys. I tell her to go ahead and flirt with other guys all the time. It's like entertainment for both of us. Stories about how guys get her free stuff, or how guys try to convince her to break up with her unknown boyfriend so they can be with her, or how guys shower her with compliments, etc.
I guess it's really just the fact that I like making her feel good - about herself. The way I see it, if she's happy, and if she feels great about herself, and if she feels beautiful and sexually wanted with me, and beautiful and sexually wanted by other guys, then she's going to feel very secure with herself in that department, which is an area that's very difficult and very important for women. So, if she feels secure in that department, it just helps the other aspects of our relationship, leads to less arguments, removes any emotional incentives to cheat, and makes for better sex. Plus, girls that are really attractive are so used to being with a guy that's insecure or controlling, that it's like a breath of fresh air to be with someone who openly gives her complete freedom and space. She definitely can't even imagine risking our relationship going sour and having to try and find that same kind of relationship dynamic with another guy.1