So this guy I have been dating, we met in college (We are still currently in college, but will graduate next yr) was my first, and I was his first. we have been dating for almost 2 yrs. but there's a problem...after graduation...i won't move in with him, because I don't approve of that before marriage. but we live (when we are not at school) like 300 miles from each other. so its either, we get married, or we go our separate ways. I don't think he wants to get married soon tho. what do I do?
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Hold your ground, but get around to asking him the hard questions of when he wants to get married and if he think he might consider marrying you at some point. Long distance will probably not work. You don't necessarily have to move in WITH him, but you could consider moving to his general area to continue dating and see where it goes. You could ask him if he'd consider doing that for you. Keep holding your ground though! I don't think it's good to rush into marriage for that reason, nor is it good to live with each other in order to avoid breaking up. There is always another way. "Love is PATIENT".0