I didn't mind it when my boyfriend was just drinking beer and chewing tobacco (he quit smoking a few years ago) when we first started dating, but once he got out of the military, he started smoking weed. He knows I don't like it and it drives me crazy, I hate the smell of it, the way he acts, and especially the taste when he kisses me after. We made an agreement that he cannot do it when I am around, because it bothers me that much. Now recently instead of waiting until I leave to smoke when I am at his house, he will go out into the garage and smoke real quick. I have tried to talk to him about it but he just won't respect what I say. Now he has started smoking cigarettes again along with chewing. I think it is just as bad, and just plain unattractive. I love him to death, but I am at a breaking point. When I started dating him he didn't smoke anything, but know its all I can smell and all he wants to do. How do I deal with this?
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You can't force a man to change. He wants to smoke just as badly as you want him to not smoke. At least he hasn't been smoking around you since you asked him and if the taste still bothers you when you kiss him you could ask him to brush his teeth or chew some gum after. Trying to control him is only going to make him resent you so you should either learn to live with it or move on.0