So I been dating this guy for a month. When we started dating I had no idea he was only 3 weeks out of his past relationship. He told me we are dating exclusivly but not boyfriend/girlfriend. We have been on tons of dates he's met my family I'm going to meet his today. Yet he feels kind of lukewarm sometimes he's seems really into me but sometimes not so much. Do you think he will commit?
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A month is not a long time! It may be too early for him to make a commitment when he's still in some sort of 'rebound' state.
Give him some time; don't pressure him. Maybe you should give him a fixed time frame when he doesn't need to move forward, when he knows he can just enjoy your company. Negotiate that with him; see if he seems to appreciate your putting up with a delay.
He'll always appreciate that you were understanding! Most guys can't handle being pressured in a relationship.0