If a friend, family member or spouse takes longer than usual to answer back a call or text do you expect to hear a reason why, such as they were in a meeting, they were away for a bit, etc?
- No, I don't really careVote A
- Yes, its the polite thing to doVote B
- I would prefer it but I don't get mad if they don't tell meVote C
Most Helpful Guy
I don't want to be a pest. I assume the person has a good reason to delay. I don't send important, rush things by text.
No one is going to thank you for demanding an explanation for a delay in responding to a text. I would want to say to you "You don't like how I respond, don't text me. I don't need your text, and I don't need you to make another demand on me, especially one that seems so self-centered. Leave me alone."
I would aim for trying to make the person glad he gets my text, so he is happy to respond.0