I am a 55 year old female. I consider myself attractive, intelligent, etc. I was contacted 2 weeks ago by a man on the dating site I am on. He gave me his phone number saying that he hoped I didn't think he was being too bold. I actually called him immediate. We spoke for a while. He told me some details about his life. I asked why he was thing me all of that. He said because he felt comfortable with be. Said he had a good gut feeling. By the way, he is in law enforcement. At any rate, he said he wanted to meet me. Began xking me everyday. Then he suddenly had a shift change. Said we will have to meet the next week... This started on 6/28/13. It is now 7/16/13. We still haven't met. He doesn't answer my text or voice mails. Yesterday he sent a text, " patience will bring us together". I have been emaing him, texting, etc. I feeling a teen stalker. I see him online on the dating site. He doesn't contact me. My daughter says that just because it reads online on the site, doesn't mean he is on the site. What should I do?
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Its normal for people on dating sites to be dating/talking to multiple people at the same time.
In fact, I would specifically advise that for you, going forward. What you'd like to do is not move desperately from one man to another, getting emotionally caught up in men you've never even met (when as you say, a lot are players or married or not really available).
Are you actually in NY? What you want to do is meet in person much faster, meet more men, go on a couple actual dates in person, see if you have chemistry, etc., then proceed further if things are going well.0