Be honest please. I just have an immensley hard time finding a boyfriend. I don't think it's because ugly or bitchy, I don't really know. I go to college full time and model part time, which is unfortunatley a very superficial industry that makes dating a bit hard
Well anyways, what I want in a guy
-having a reasonable amount of ambition, like having a decent job and if they're still in college knowing what they want a bit and not spending 8 years on their undergraduates.
- being reasonably attractive. I know it's very subjective but I really think I'm very accepting. Based on looks I'd date most guys I know. The only thing I really can't stand is him being overweight
- for the future someone who is not afraid of commitment. Obviously I don't a family in the next few years, but I do want it someday and I'm not afraid to say that. I'm not looking for sex only
- can take charge sometimes. I think in many ways I'd prefer a more traditional relationship, so a man who takes charge of a situation sometimes is hot.
Is it too much? I honestly don't think it's anything I couldn't fullfill myself.
I recently joined a (free) online dating site and while I did get messages I wouldn't consider dating a lot of them because they're in their mid 20s or even around 30 and have no idea what they're doing in their lives. Often unemployed or still in college. I hate that, but they often say that women tend to exceed men in that area (statistically) so is that all I can hope for?
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I thought your list would be longer than I expected...lol Isn't that pretty typical of what any woman wants in any man? So no...I don't think you're asking for too much.
I fit into 2.5-ish outta 4 categories...lol attractiveness is subjective and commitment still scares me just a weeee bit. :P I got the career, ambition, assertiveness down. Started my career at 22ish and been with the same for almost 5 years. If it wasn't for being assertive...I would've been chewed up in the corporate environment already lol
So...don't lose hope! But chances are you'll never find us because with us ambitious guys...we're sorta glued to our careers and jobs. :P