I met a girl online about a week ago now. We exchanged 2-3 messages a day until yesterday. I had given her my phone # the second day but she never texted me or called me, but we still exchanged messages online. Yesterday she sent me a message saying "Why are we still talking on this site? What is your phone # again?" We spent the next 3 hours texting each other back and forth and had a great conversation. We ended up texting until like 3 am when I realized how late it was and told I was sorry for keeping her up that late and she responded "No worries I have definitely enjoyed staying up with you! Goodnight :)"
So should I text her again today? It is 9:30 at night here and I have been busy all day and I know she worked two jobs today so I don't think she has been home either, but I am not sure if I should text her again tonight or if I should give it a day or two. We haven't met in person yet, so I am not sure if daily texts would be too much at this point. Should I wait to see if she texts me, should I send her a text or should I give it a day or two?
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you don't need to give it more than a day to show interest... just don't over text in that day... but I would say like 3-10 back and fourth texts in a day (can be split up like 3 in the morning and 3 at night) should be your ideal... I hate when a guy shows a lot of text interest for the first two weeks and then shows less effort after that on a daily basis after even though they like me...Personally I don't get why people date each other for months before going into a relationship... I usually know after 5 dates if I want a relationship with a guy... but when a guy takes a step back even if it's threw text I note it and figure that he doesn't like me as much as he did0