I just asked this question about a week ago, about the same dude (please read for background info). link
So, he told me on Saturday I believe that he would see if we could go out Thursday, and see if our male mutual friend/coworker could cone, and would keep me updated. I told him layer that day that it was okay if the coworker couldn't make it. He grinned really wide and said "okay" and smiled hard at me later.
He has had my cell # since Friday. I don't have his. Why haab't he texted me to firm up Thurs? It's Wednesday already!
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It's Friday where I am. Did you miss it?
If you typed exactly what he said, then he said that he "would see", so he didn't exactly confirm anything, right?
Could this guy have really bad memory? If so, then maybe you're just a friend to him. If you were that important to him, he would have remembered. Yet, just because he forgets, doesn't mean he doesn't care, right? So it's really hard to tell why he didn't call, because it could be a number of things, and we can't really be sure.
Perhaps the best thing to do is to wait it out. If he really wants to do this, then you're bound to be able to go out with him one day, right? If he doesn't care enough, then you may feel bad, he isn't the right person (only if he doesn't care).
It would have been good of him to call at least a day or two in advance. Calling in advance would be the polite thing to do, and prevents worry, allowing for adjustment of plans. If this only happens once or twice, it's no problem, but if it happens repeatedly, he either has really bad memory, which is unlikely, he has commitment issues, or he is just trying to play with you (which wouldn't be good).0