We are both 21... We both work and college students. All last week, we talked every day. But then the next day, he never text meback. So the day after, I text him and we talked. But then I didn't hear from him for another few ore days. I talked to him Tuesday, but then I had to work so I said I'd talk to him after... He said okay sounds good. Then I never heard from him. So I text him yesterday and again got no response. He's not exactly the kind of guy that texts a girl first... So I'm a bit confused. This is the first guy I have actually perused after a long hard break up and getting over a psycho ex boyfriend. What do I do?
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I don't see the problem here. He's just a normal guy that isn't glued to his phone. Get over it and stop judging your relationship purely based upon texting. Get to know the guy and judge him that way, not based upon how much, how often, or if he texts you back.
You're going to have a hard time keeping guys if you are the type that expects a guy to text/call you constantly, even every day. Adults get busy, and guys hate talking on the phone and texting, so its not uncommon for a guy to go a day or more without talking to you if he's busy. I know I personally just rather wait until I see the girl to talk to her. Of course I missing her, my lack of texts doesn't mean I don't miss her. I just know texting isn't going to do anything to fix that. Conversation doesn't stimulate hormones in men the same way it does in women, so texting you isn't going to change the fact that I haven't see you in 2 days.2
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