Are white men less direct in their dating approach than black men?

I've recently started dating a few white guys and I find them to be to subtle in their dating approach. I'm black and I've previously only dated black men who are much more direct. Has anyone ever encountered the same thing?


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  • Yeah, I would say you're right.

    There's definitely a machoness gap between white guys and black guys. It's become popular for white guys to be unassertive and little bit gender-neutral. Macho is coming back into fashion now, but I'm not sure if white guys will ever become as assertive as they were.

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What Guys Said 1

  • Yes, it's relative.

    White women are more subtle than black women, and so white men are more subtle than black men. If you see how white women act, then you will understand why white men act the way they do.

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What Girls Said 5

  • Yeah in general white people are less direct with their approaches

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  • Yeah, I think. I've dated two black guys before and both were a lot more forward than any white guy I had dated. It might be because they were brought up in a tough situation (both grew up in Brooklyn), but that's just a guess.

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  • yes, I think they are less direct

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  • yes I agree

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  • no I haven't actually.

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