I've been chatting with a 21 year old guy for about eight months. The first four, we texted a lot & found out we had a lot in common. Then his ex added him back on FB & she posted crap on his wall. After a couple weeks of that BS, I texted him "happy new year" since it was January 1st. He didn't reply, so I deleted everything. Phone, Facebook, all the texts.
No activity for almost a month...just for the hell of it, I shot him a FBmessage in early Feb. 'Hope the dogs aren't too cold' since its winter & freezing out. He replies, much to my surprise & we chatted on there until about 2-3 weeks ago.
Last response I got...I sent him "Happy 4th" & he replies "ditto." I asked him how his job was & he didn't reply...
Should I delete everything again & never talk to him again?
In a month, send him a 'polite', 'mature' message asking him "what happened?" &/or "what changed?" "What happened with how things were before?"
We cracked jokes, had nicknames, comforted each other when one of us had a rough day...I suppose it's better since we never actually met up, even though all I really wanted was a "hello"...
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Delete everything and move on.0