So my ex and I were on good terms for a while and we talked and joked around often.
Over the last few days he has been completely unresponsive. He has an Iphone so I can see that he's read my message late late at night but he never responds. The past couple times, I've gotten nothing including the last message that said it was delivered but never been read.
I remade my profile on POF, the site we originally met on to message him to see what was going on because I know recently, he dropped his phone and broke his screen so I didn't know if he was just unable to recieve texts and that was the issue. He came online but never responded, so I sent another message saying that I wouldn't contact him anymore, that all I wanted was to know why because I was hurt and confused.
Up until now he hasn't given me any inclination as to me bugging him or that he wanted me to leave him alone. I text him maybe once a day or every other day- nothing excessive.
I just don't know what to do, a part of me wants to call and see if I can get a response. All I want to know is what the hell happened because of how suddenly he took off.
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He does not want you. He does not want to be with you at all, in any capacity. He does not want to be your friend, he does not want to be your f*ck buddy. Perhaps he finds you annoying, maybe there is someone else, who knows?
But the point is, if he is not responding, but he's reading the messages and hanging out online and such, he does not want to talk to you, for whatever reason. Just leave him be and move on. I've been there and done that, pretty much this exact thing happened to me not too long ago. Complete with him saying things like "I'll always be here for you to talk to as a friend if you need me" and actually, since both of us knew dating wasn't going to happen, we thought friends with benefits might be a fun idea. Then he didn't respond to my texts, and then I found out not too long after that he blocked me on FB. And the whole situation sucked.
But ANYONE who decides to ignore you instead of talking to you and telling you the truth and saying "Hey, there's someone else" or "This isn't working out, with us just being friends" or whatever is just an immature d*ck and not worth your time.
I know it hurts, but you clearly deserve better than him, if he can't even be open and honest with you about your relationship. I'm so sorry this happened, but the best thing for you is to just say "F*CK HIM WHAT AN A**HOLE" and move on.