I've been going out on dates with a girl I work with, we're on date #3. I've been taking it slow because she just got out of a 5 year relationship with someone but I have been trying subtle hints that I am interested. This afternoon when we went for lunch, I gave her a healing candle I found in new-age silver jewelery shop I picked up on the weekend (because she hurt her shoulder a few weeks ago). Shortly after giving her the candle (during lunch), she told me a story about a date she went on recently, and the fact that a customer asked her out on a date this morning. My boss (female) who is best friends with her said she enjoyed the gift. Is her telling me about other dates a hint that she wants me to make my move? Or is this an indication that she wants to date multiple people, and she is trying to make me aware of it? How does a guy make himself stand out against other people she's dating, or thinking about dating? We have another date in 4 days, I was thinking about making my move. Is this a good or bad idea? Thanks.
What can a guy do to make himself stand out when a girl is dating multiple people?
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You are going through the "friend" route of which will ultimately get you burned.
If she is telling you about other dates then it maybe too late.
Why did you buy her the gift... because you are a "friend." That is total wuss behaviour.. serious, only wusses do that kinda thing.
If it was your Girlfriend or just a close female friend, then a gift shows you care, but someone you like the gift shows a bit of desperation.
I can bet you she doesn't realise it is a date..
As for relationship with this girl my opinion is she has just came out of a long term relationship. She needs time to move on and date OTHER rebound people. Give it 5 months or so, because you have to remember they may still talk with the ex and you have little chance against him if he decides to come back.
Her telling you about other dates means she may not be all that interested in them.
Now the best way to stand out if you do really like her is to start saying to her how much she is a great FRIEND, how she gonna make some guy a lucky man. whilst in your head you try to find faults with her.. I don't know why but it sort of turns the table around.
It sort of stands you out because most other guys are probably employing your wuss tactics...
Also don't discuss relationships with your boss because that stuff may haunt you in the future.0
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